{"id":720,"date":"2011-07-12T02:57:48","date_gmt":"2011-07-12T02:57:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hashtag.pe\/itemple\/?p=720"},"modified":"2011-07-12T02:57:48","modified_gmt":"2011-07-12T02:57:48","slug":"tu-cara-no-me-ayuda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/inestemple.com\/en\/2011\/07\/tu-cara-no-me-ayuda\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu cara no me ayuda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Publicado en diario El Comercio (Per\u00fa), el 12\/07\/2011<\/strong><\/p>\n

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A veces las cosas no salen como quisi\u00e9ramos y se complican, se demoran, se enredan\u2026<\/p>\n

Puede tratarse de un proyecto atracado en la oficina, de un equipo que no termina de integrarse o de la salud de un familiar querido que no mejora tan r\u00e1pido como esperamos.<\/p>\n

Y fruncimos el ce\u00f1o, expresamos nuestra molestia, buscamos culpables y maldecimos hasta a la mosca que da vueltas por la habitaci\u00f3n. Amargos y frustrados nos preguntamos \u201c\u00bfpor qu\u00e9 me pasa esto a m\u00ed?\u201d.<\/p>\n

No hace mucho estaba yo en una de esas situaciones y mi mal \u00e1nimo era transparente para todos, mi hija se me acerc\u00f3 y muy calmadamente me dijo al o\u00eddo: \u201cMam\u00e1, tu cara no me ayuda\u201d.<\/p>\n

La mir\u00e9 con sorpresa. \u201c\u00bfA qu\u00e9 te refieres?\u201d, dije tratando de justificar mi actitud \u2013la \u00fanica que me sent\u00eda humanamente capaz de tener dadas las circunstancias\u2013. \u201cNecesito tu buena vibra y energ\u00eda\u201d, me dijo. \u201cNecesito que est\u00e9s bien y que seas t\u00fa la que nos digas que todo va a estar bien\u201d.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed, en un instante ca\u00ed en cuenta de mi error: estaba tan focalizada en mi propio malestar que hab\u00eda perdido la perspectiva de que la protagonista no era yo. Al dejarme llevar por mis emociones, estaba impactando negativamente en la energ\u00eda de los dem\u00e1s, energ\u00eda tan necesaria para enfrentar los retos, especialmente los de largo aliento.<\/p>\n

Esta experiencia me llev\u00f3 a reflexionar sobre c\u00f3mo en el trabajo a veces nos metemos tanto en los problemas que olvidamos que nuestros colaboradores leen atentos nuestro lenguaje corporal y buscan interpretar en nuestros mensajes no verbales (gestos y caras) se\u00f1ales que ojal\u00e1 les transmitan tranquilidad.<\/p>\n

Olvidamos que nos debemos a ellos, que necesitan de nosotros y todo nuestro buen \u00e1nimo y esp\u00edritu positivo para energizarse y poder continuar en la brega, sobre todo y especialmente, en \u00e9pocas de cambio o incertidumbre, o cuando hay dificultades que podr\u00edan impactarlos directamente. Jack Welch, el ex presidente de GE, lo expres\u00f3 muy bien: \u201cLiderar es sobre ellos, no sobre nosotros\u201d.<\/p>\n

Creo que aprend\u00ed la lecci\u00f3n que me ense\u00f1\u00f3 Jimena: hoy en casa y en la oficina hago mi mejor esfuerzo para mantener mi esp\u00edritu en alto e inspirar a los dem\u00e1s. Y aunque a veces es muy dif\u00edcil, trato de no perder la calma ni la sonrisa, en beneficio de los dem\u00e1s\u2026. \u00a1y del m\u00edo tambi\u00e9n!<\/p>\n

Ver art\u00edculo<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

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